How to Get Your Ex Back
Hi and welcome to our site! Lots of people wonder if it's possible to get back together with an ex. People makeup and breakup everyday, so there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to patch things up with your ex, too. While we can't guarantee that you'll get back together, we can point you in the right direction and massively increase your chances.If you're feeling miserable right now, then I feel for you...because I've been there, too! I developed this 5-step program to help myself get through some tough times. Then I tried it on some of my friends, and now I want to share it with the people who'll benefit the most from it: you.
Before you can even think about getting back with your ex, you need first get over him or her. That doesn't mean that you won't be getting back with your ex, but if you feel overcome by angry, depression, confusion and all those other post-breakup emotions, then you need this! Follow these 5 steps and you'll feel a bit better everyday.
First: deal with the messages, calls and emails
I'm sure you've been going through the emails, messages and texts that your ex has sent you over the past few days. You're probably analyzing every single word and trying to figure out what went wrong and how you could change to fix everything up. You must stop NOW!
DELETE THEM NOW!
Delete those breakup messages ASAP!
In order to regain control of your life, you've got to stop thinking about every single detail of your breakup. There's a time and place to revisit things (and we'll get to that), but now you need to remove yourself from the whole situation.
It's not easy to delete those messages, but show yourself how strong you are and do it. If you're really uncomfortable losing them forever, then print them out or save them someplace out of sight. Realize that you have to learn to stand on your own two feet before you can get back into a healthy and strong relationship.
Step 2: Box up your ex's stuff
Go through your room, house, apartment or whatever and box up anything and everything that reminds you of your ex: trinkets you got on birthdays or anniversaries, photos, the disk with all your messages from step 1, clothing...absolutely EVERYTHING. Put it all in a box! If your place looks or feels empty after, don't worry about it: remember that you're starting fresh!
Box up your past and get it out of your present and future.
Next, take that box to a friend's place, your parents' house or donate to the needy. If you really need to detach yourself, then you could even burn it! Again, the goal is to get your ex out of your head and start fresh.
Step 3: Let it all out
I keep saying that before you can learn how to get your ex back, you have to get over the whole situation. And part of getting over your past relationship is to let out all your emotions. So now I want you to let it all out: lock yourself in your room or the bathroom and have a good cry. Indulge yourself: put on some sad music, watch some cheesy TV and cry, cry, cry. Don't be ashamed of yourself! It's natural and you'll feel so much better afterwards.
Let all your emotions out over a few days
Now grab a pencil and paper and write a letter to your ex. You're not really going to give it to him/her, but write down how you feel about the breakup and let them know if you're scared, angry, depressed, lost or whatever.
Indulge yourself in your emotions and let it all go: this step is so important for getting yourself on the right track towards making up with your ex.
Step 4: Make a list and get busy
Now that you've let out your emotions and removed everything that reminds you of your past, it's time to start looking towards your bright, busy future.
Make a list of everything and everyone that makes you happy
Make a to do list. Have you lost touch with some old friends? Maybe you haven't spoken to some people in your family lately. What hobbies and interests have you neglected? Have you always wanted to take a month off and go to the Bahamas?
Your list needs to focus on things that make you happy. If you're at all like me, then you probably neglect your own interests when you're in a serious relationship. Now that you've got the time, you need to make a commitment to getting involved in hobbies, interests, passions, goals and old friends. All of these things will make you happy again and help you smooth things out.
Now that you've got your list sorted, it's time to work some things into your schedule. Make a serious effort to spend at least one hour a day on something on your list: a phone call with an old friend, an hour plucking around on the guitar, an hour running, whatever...Consistency is the key and it'll make you feel so much better.
Step 5: Revisiting your old relationship.
If you've gone through steps 1 - 4 and are ready to really learn how to get your ex back, then here's what you need to do:
Enter your email into the box below and mark if you're a guy or a girl (the steps for a smooth makeup are a bit different depending on your gender). We'll send you the first video in our 5-part series that teaches how to get your ex back and blows the lid off of some secrets that "relationship gurus" don't want out in the open for free ;) . Simply enter your info below and then check your email for the first video in about 5 minutes. This post was written by Devin
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